How to Teach a Child to Answer “How” Questions:
Children need to be able to answer a variety of questions to participate in conversations as well as classroom activities. Here are some guides for teaching your child to answer how questions.
How Questions Step One:
Quantity How Questions
The first type of how questions we will work on is about quantity. These are questions like “how many sandwiches do you have?” or “how much soup is there?”. Answers to these questions are either specific numbers or other quantity words like “a little”, “a lot”, etc.
Find some small objects that you have more than one of. These can be toy cars, food, game pieces,etc. Put one down in front of your child and say “how many ___ are there?”. Have your child count and tell you there is one.
Now, place a few more in front of your child and ask again. Help him count again and tell you the correct number. Make sure you don’t place more objects out tha your child is able to count. Keep doing this until your child can tell you the correct number every time you say “how many”. You may have to keep practicing this a while before he starts to get it.
Once he can do specific number, switch to “how much” questions about things that don’t necessarily need to be counted with specific numbers. For example, you would say “how many sandwiches” but you would say “how much soup”. The answer to a “how much” question would be “a little”, “a lot”, or some other quantity word that’s not a specific number.
How Questions Step Two:
Quality How Questions
Quality how questions are all about using your 5 senses to gain information about what’s going on around you. These are questions like “how does it feel?” or “how does it taste?”. Find one object that you would like to describe.
Show it to your child and ask “how does it ___(feel, smell, look, sound, taste)?” Choose how questions about one sense to use at a time for this. Have your child think of all the words she can to describe that object using that sense.
If your child is stuck and needs some help, start giving her choices of descriptors that might fit. For example, you could say “is it bumpy or smooth?”. Then, let her pick which one fits the object best.
How Questions Step Three:
Extent How Questions
Now we’re going to work on how questions about the extent of something. For example, you can ask “how excited are you?” or “how hot is it outside?”. These are all questions that will be answered with a range of severities or intensities.
Find chances throughout the day to ask extent how questions about what your child is experiencing. You can ask your child about his emotions (“how sad are you right now?”) or about things he is feeling (“how wet is your swimsuit?”).
Help your child to answer with a severity or intensity, like “very sad, a little sad, not sad” or “very wet, a little wet, or not wet”.
How Questions Step Four:
Procedural How Questions
The last type of how questions that you can work on is procedural how questions. These are questions that ask how something is done. The answer will be a procedure for how to do it. Use pictures that represent a complex but familiar series of events. This could be something like brushing your teeth, washing your hands, building a sand castle, etc. Show your child one picture and ask her “how do you _____?”.
Help her form her answer with a statement about what you do first (“First, you…”), some statements about what happens next (“Next, you…” or “then, you…), and then a statement about what you do last (“Last, you…” or “Finally, you…”). Using words like “first”, “then”, and “last” will help your child organize her thoughts better and make sure everything comes out in a logical manner. Make sure your child also includes all of the important steps to the task.
About the Author: Carrie Clark, MA CCC-SLP
Hi, I’m Carrie! I’m a speech-language pathologist from Columbia, Missouri, USA. I’ve worked with children and teenagers of all ages in schools, preschools, and even my own private practice. I love digging through the research on speech and language topics and breaking it down into step-by-step plans for my followers.
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This a very good article to teaching the use of how questions. thanks a lot.
Glad you enjoy it! Thanks so much for the feedback!
Very informative. We could look at the Why questions too. We can agree that since the Teacher is no longer regarded as the sage on the stage but the guide on the side then procedures must change. Thanks again for the post
Glad you enjoyed it! It’s nice to have a framework to try with kiddos who don’t get this on their own!
Very good info about how to teach how questions! thanks a lot.
You’re welcome! Glad you enjoyed it!
This is great – thanks!!
You’re welcome!
I’m trying to compile a list of extent how questions to use with a student who needs lots of trials to reach mastery. If you’re willing to share, I’m happy to exchange with what I’ve come up with so far!
You’re welcome to post a link here in the comments! Thanks!
Hi, I’m working at home on this with my little boy who has high-functioning autism. He also needs a lot of trials I can use. Would you be willing to share what you have found so far with me? If so, please e-mail me at lizzylizzabee@gmail.com Thanks
This is great! Thanks so much for posting!
You’re welcome!!
I cannot thank you enough for this blog lost. My daughter has asd and she does pretty well with the 5 Ws but How has just been a very tough hurdle for her. This is such a beautiful breakdown of a systematic approach that I think will absolutely work for my daughter as I know she can answer how many and how much so that will be a perfect bridge to getting to procedural hows. God bless you for sharing!!
Wonderful! Glad it will help!
I have gone through your website.very informative and helpful. glad that I came across your website.A big thank you..and wish you all good.
Thank you, Sravani! Please let us know if we can help in anyway.
This is a great illustration, amazing.
Keep up the good work.
I would appreciate having the way to teach “why” questions. They are a bit tricky to start with .
Hi, Manal-
Here is a link to Carrie’s resources on Why: https://www.speechandlanguagekids.com/?s=why+game. Please let us know if you need anything else.